Love and Hatred

Allahumma solli 3ala sayidina Muhammad~
Assalamualaikum (peace be upon you)

love hatred disease?!

we love but we hate..
we hate but we love..
we love to hate..
and we hate to love..

I know that my words are getting more complicated..
it was just a simple saying, if you read it carefully..


okay, let me make things clear..

when we love someone, the tendency for us to hate them is getting higher as we will notice every tiny miny things that they do..

on the other hand, those annoying things that they do..
we hate it..!! but we still love them..
for example : smokers... well, you can say how damn deadly bad you hate smokers.. but sometimes, people didn't even realize how did they end up marrying a guy who smoke..

again we.. people..
love to hate someone.. no matter what the reason is..
and sometimes there are no reason for such hatred..
we hardly barely unable to face them.. cause we will tend to get annoyed easily..
we just LOVE hating them.. didn't we..?!

and there even some people who hate to love..
hrrmm.......
maybe they used to have such a bad experience dealing with backstabbers or whatever person who had blown up their trust and love....IDK ;)

well, people..
for every love and hatred thing..
there are solutions.. trust me.. *nodding...confidently*
and trust Him... :)

question ourself back..
why we love those people..?
and why we hate them..?

if you are saying that you love someone, you should accept them as who they are.
nobody perfect.. that is why we love them to make our life perfect!
try to give and take..
but remember that "Allah loves people who gives more than people who receive..."

what we give, we get more :)

and if you ever hate someone.. try to forgive..
"..He love those who forgive others, cause He is the Most Forgiving.."
i know its hard.. but at least we try..
make our effort to forgive..
and leave the rest to Him..

feeling hatred won't cause any harm to the people we hate..
instead, we are the one who tend to get all those heartaches and countless sleepless night..

i know these feelings..
cause i felt annoyed too..
and honestly, i hated it!
nobody like those evil feeling buried deep down in our heart..
because its our nature(fitrah) to be a good nice cute person and feels like one.
pureness...kindness..is what people searching for..

so guys and gals..
feel free to love EVERYONE..
our family, friends, teachers, neighbour, or even our enemy..

but keep in our mind..
and always remember..
that we love someone for the sake of Allah..
thus, set our 'niat' right! :)

spread the love..
"..sesungguhnya mukmin itu bersaudara.."

uhibbukum fillah~ ^^

wasalam...


*p.s :
maafkan ku duhai sahabat jika aku tak mampu untuk jadi sahabat yang sempurna disisi mu..